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Anita Moorjani Anita Moorjani near-death survivor. critic silencer. natural spirit.

Anita Moorjani is the bestselling author of Dying to be Me, the moving, true story of her near-death experience at the end stage of cancer. [www.anitamoorjani.com]

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The most meaningful thing I’ve learned is that unless I love myself, nothing else in my life can function at its best. The amount of depth, meaning, and joy I experience in my life is in direct proportion to how much love I have for myself. The amount of love, kindness, and patience I have for others is also directly proportional to how much love I have for myself, because we can’t give others what we ourselves don’t have. Unsurprisingly, the amount of love, respect, support, and compassion I receive from others is also in direct proportion to how much I love myself.

Many of us are taught from a young age to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. But what if we don’t love ourselves? What if we’re our own worst enemy, our own harshest critic?

Learning to love others begins with learning to love ourselves unconditionally. This seems to be a well-kept secret, which no one taught me as I was growing up. On the contrary, I was encouraged from a young age to put myself last and told that it’s selfish to love ourselves or put ourselves first. I used to give and give of myself, without tending to my own needs, to the point that I became so drained it started to affect my health.

I constantly believed I needed to work on myself, because I wasn’t good enough as I was. I worked on being better, more loving, more spiritual. I was always judging myself because I never felt I made the mark.

And then I got cancer.  I didn’t just get cancer, I nearly died from cancer. My cancer was the greatest gift I’ve ever had. Nearly dying taught me how to live. My cancer taught me the importance of loving and valuing myself unconditionally for who I am – a perfect being of the Universe, worthy and deserving of love, without needing to prove myself, better myself, or change myself in any way. I became aware that I have a right to express my uniqueness with abandon.

I now also understand that I don’t have to work at being spiritual. Being spiritual is who we are at the core, whether we realize it or not. It’s our true nature, so we can’t NOT be spiritual. Being authentic and being spiritual are the same thing.

Anita Moorjani

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