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Holly Sidell Holly Sidell Healer. Writer. Astrological Empowerer.

Holly Sidell is a writer, spiritual fitness teacher, and astrological empowerer who inspires you to choose your own Happily Ever After. [www.hollysidell.com]

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We all have negative thoughts and doubts that come up every waking second of every day. They bombard us all the time. What I do is acknowledge whatever comes up. I acknowledge it and honor it, no matter how negative it is. I say, “Oh, hello old thought or doubt, there you are again!” By observing it, it floats away.  The more we try to ignore or fight those negative thoughts and doubts, the more energy we give them and the more they grow. I just let them come up, because what we resist persists. I don’t resist those thoughts that still come up telling me I can’t do it, I’m not worthy, not good enough, skinny enough, smart enough, cool enough, etc. I don’t fight them. I just chose not to believe them.

The truth is, such thoughts will always come up, no matter how spiritual or conscious we are or how much work we do on ourselves. What changes is how we handle those thoughts. We can choose to let them keep us from living the life we want. We can choose to let them keep us unhappy or unfulfilled. Or we can choose not to believe them.

Integrity in dealing with myself and others is a driving force in my life. It’s become very important to me to keep my word. In today’s society, we’re almost programmed to assume not to take anyone at their word. We assume people are going to flake – and that’s usually because we flake on ourselves!

I decided to make a choice to keep commitments to myself and others – no matter what – after I realized I was making commitments to myself to do all sorts of things, big and small, but not following through. I’d commit to going to yoga four times a week, meeting a friend for coffee, writing one blog post every day, or starting a new project … but then not do it. I always had an excuse. I started really feeling icky about it.

Now, even if I’m tired, even if I don’t want to, even if other things come up, I do what I say I’m going to do. And I feel empowered and confident. That feeling carries over into every area of my life.

I encourage you to make the choice to keep your word, too, to yourself and to others, no matter how small a thing you commit to. See how you feel when you do. I bet you’ll feel empowered!

– Holly Sidell

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