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Miki Devivo Miki Devivo life author. real mother. unique sparkler.

Miki DeVivo is a mom, story wrangler, still space finder, and bridge builder. She's passionate about building a community of moms who give voice to what's in their hearts. [www.thestillspace.com]

For me, it’s the little things. The way my daughter wraps her whole body around my leg to hug me. The cadence of my son’s voice when he says, “Mama, I love you.” The way my husband whistles when he’s happy, without even noticing. And the way my mom proclaims her love of butter every single time she eats toast.

I’ve long been fascinated by the alchemy that occurs when people come together to share their stories. How each of us is sparklingly unique and, at the same time, all connected as part of the universal story. Those little moments anchor the bonds we share, connecting us ever more closely together.

I was honestly not prepared for the relentless demands of motherhood. Consumed by what I thought I “should” be doing, I couldn’t enjoy the little moments. One day, about six months in, I was taking some pictures of my little one and, in that moment, the fears and doubts melted away. It was as if I was truly seeing her for the first time.

There’s a myth in our culture that motherhood is an amazingly transcendent experience full of rainbows and fluffy bunnies. And there are times when it is indeed heartachingly beautiful. But motherhood is also really hard, and there’s no shame in that.

When I rush, telling myself that I can enjoy something when I’m done with that other thing, I feel disconnected. “Done” never seems to come. But when I slow down and let the meaning of each small moment unfold, I connect with my family in the way I long to.

Let’s give ourselves permission to talk about what it’s really like for us – the ups and the downs. Let’s create our own definitions of what Real Motherhood looks like. Let’s stop living by someone else’s script and start tuning in to our own deep knowing.

By choosing to become the authors of our own life stories, we free up energy to discover what we want and to make our own meaning out of our experiences.

My desire for my own motherhood story is that it be a spiritual practice, a letting go of the false perfection of “getting it right” and an embracing of the deeper perfection of “good enough.”

Along the way, I enjoy the little moments, connecting in small ways.

Again and again and again.

– Miki Devivo

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