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Roger Wolfson Writer. Former Political Aide. Identifier.

Roger Wolfson is a television and film writer who's written for four different hit TV series. A former political aide, he was staff to Senators Lieberman, Kerry, Wellstone, and Kennedy. [www.rogerwolfson.com]

If I’m asking myself how to stay in the game. If I’m reminding myself of tricks for how to stay focused on what’s meaningful to me, then…

I pretty much know where I’m standing. And it’s not in spirit. I’m standing in scarcity. I’m standing in lack. In worry. I’m struggling. I’m trying. And I’m looking to the same entity that got me into this “mess” – my ego – to get me out. Because strategizing and struggling and trying are all egoic mechanisms.

But that’s OK. It’s perfect, even. I am not my ego, but I do possess an ego, and it is a useful device. In truth, I am spirit, and as such, I’m a foreigner on the earth plane. And my ego, being a local, is my guide. Put to service, the ego is as wonderful a vehicle as the body.

Being spirit, I have no worry. No lack. No need of reminders of how to stay in the game. If I choose to know myself as spirit, I stand in abundance, joy, health, and heaven. If I choose to identify with my ego, I am limited to a story, an ego, and a body that are far smaller than I truly am.

Fortunately, identifying with the ego does not make me an ego. I am always spirit, a finger on the hand of God, and one with all. I can choose to identify with myself as I truly am whenever I so desire. My reidentification is based purely on my willingness.

So, when I’m in an egoic state, I don’t make myself wrong for it. Instead, I thank myself for making an ego that will never be satisfied and therefore will never successfully keep me from spirit for long. And I meditate for an hour every day; I study A Course in Miracles; I travel to Egypt, Greece, Peru, and India and study the Ancient Mysteries; I fast for a day every week; I foreswear drugs, alcohol, and meat; and I go sailing on a regular basis.

And when I’m identifying with my true self as spirit? I do all of those same things. I just enjoy them a heck of a lot more.

– Roger Wolfson

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