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BJ Panda Bear BJ Panda Bear emoter. now chaser. crisis averter.

BJ Panda Bear is the natural blonde bombshell with the heart of gold entertaining through DJing, hosting events, and producing visual and audio works that shines light on the ups and downs of futurity. [www.BJPandaBear.com]

Being happy requires being real. I went through many years of trying to plan too far into the future that I had lost sight of the basics. The basics for me meant using the day-to-day happenstances as the building blocks for a not too distant future. Today I have abandoned old ways of pining for such grandiose events to happen. I have gained this new humbling experience of not only accepting, but embracing the short term deliveries of life.

When I was young I was surrounded by friends and peers who were advancing in a way that was really uncommon in most circumstances. I do love my friends, but there was a point that I spread myself too thin trying to compete. I wasn’t able to focus on simple things. I was just constantly rushing. It finally hit me all at the same time when I found out my father had passed away, and several very close friends had cancer scares. It all directly related to being young and that incredibly cliché selfishness of thinking you are invincible.

Many jobs I had to work at ate at my soul. All that was meaningful to me was in shambles. Pretending to be happy wasn’t what I ever wanted. I needed to feel. I get satisfaction when I am at my most raw and emotive. Even in my toughest moments, my later self-reflections make it all worth it to know where I was and feel how I did. Living in LA, seeing others who never allowed themselves a subversive upbringing and are now driving around in $500,000 cars and grabbing hold of whatever young flesh they can in the twilight of their three-quarter life crisis speaks to me as a precautionary tale. Live your day like it’s your last, or else you shall bottle up resentment inside, and it will blow up when you are balding.

Don’t censor your emotions. That will be your biggest regret. Now I live in constant mindfulness. Allowing myself to be even more hypersensitive to my emotions has been wonderful as well as horrible, but in the end I sort myself out and get back on the right track. Sure, there are times when I think and behave in self destructive and vindictive ways, but it’s real and honest to how I feel in that moment. I live my life through my nerve endings.

– BJ Panda Bear

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