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be present

My world changed on April 27, 2009, the day my twin boys were born four months early. After a picture-perfect pregnancy, my wife inexplicably went into labor at 24 weeks. Every effort was made to stop the contractions but our sons were born by emergency C-section a few hours later. I remember being shoved into the operating room and seeing teams of doctors working on two impossibly tiny babies, each barely over a pound.
I was in such a state of shock that I felt myself lifting up out of my body and looking down from the ceiling. I watched myself spinning down below, looking dazed and confused. I saw my wife being sewn up and the doctors’ frantic attempts to save the lives of our babies. I remember using every ounce of awareness I could summon and uttering the mantra, “Go back, go back, go back, this is your family, these are your sons.” I felt myself falling back into my body and, though I was filled with adrenaline, I began taking in what was happening around me.
Our son Oliver died 12 hours later, creating a hole in our lives that can never be completely filled. But his brother Charlie fought an amazing battle and survived through four months in the neonatal intensive care unit.
My tendency had always been to catastrophize life events. It was part of my dramatic Jewish “shtick,” and I often used my fear-mongering to comedic effect. But I couldn’t do that in this situation. Thanks to Charlie, I learned to live in the moment, to focus on what’s happening RIGHT NOW and not panic about all the scary things that could happen tomorrow, next week, or next year. I had to be there for my son every day as he fought for his life. He almost died many times and had to undergo six surgeries, including three on his brain.
Today, Charlie is thriving. He’s a roly-poly, good-natured, loving baby who lights up any room he enters. Although he’s only two years old, he’s already taught me so much. I feel more present for everyone in my life, including my wife and my 16-year-old daughter.
I don’t know what challenges the future will bring, but whenever I feel that familiar panic setting in, I think back to those terrifying days in the hospital when I had to hold steady and I’m able to pull myself back to the present. This gift may have been born in tragedy, but I’m grateful for it every day.
– Danny Miller
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