Jack Canfield Jack Canfield author. speaker. motivator.

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Seth Godin Seth Godin author. speaker. linchpin.

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Krishna Kaur Krishna Kaur yogi. philanthropist. dynamic teacher.

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Norman Lear Norman Lear producer. philanthropist. tv legend.

Norman Lear has enjoyed a long career in television and film. He is also a political and social activist and philanthropist. [www.normanlear.com]

 
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Mastin Kipp Mastin Kipp Writer. Entrepreneur. Daily Lover.

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Jorge Perez Jorge Perez Agent. Producer. Photography Enthusiast.

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Joan Steffend Joan Steffend brilliance advocate. student of nature. peaceful storyteller.

Joan loves people and their stories. She's been working on hers for a long time and shares it in books, speeches, and through her inner peace organization. [www.peacebeginswithme.org]

I grew up in a Swedish culture and was taught early on not to think highly of myself. I can understand not wanting to be egotistical, but that wasn’t it. They never wanted me to see my own beauty. I’ve spent most of my life trying to recapture my own brilliant, unique self so I can make a difference. We can’t make a difference if we’re pretending to be someone else.

What’s motivated me my whole life is peace. Whenever I haven’t felt peaceful, I’ve wondered why and looked for it. Peace feeds me.

I’m rarely irritated anymore. I feel it’s my responsibility to bring energy to whatever space I’m in, whether on a highway or in a store. When I find myself being less than I want to be, I bring myself back. It’s a conscious decision. I want to promote kindness and peace in the world. How can I do that if I don’t make a decision to be that myself?

When I talk to people about finding purpose, I ask them who they were when they were very young, before the world got to them completely. As a child, how did they spend their time when they had no expectations put on them? When they designed their own day as a child, where was the joy? How did those days unfold? People often light up like Christmas trees when they talk about who they were as children before the world said, “No, you can’t be that.”

I’d love to get my hands on the educational system. I’d have the first two questions every child is asked be “Who are you?” and “How can we make you more of that?” In the meantime, we can question the stories we were told as children. What’s a different story that could be told? I was told I was stubborn, hot-tempered, and lazy. Now I see that I knew who I was when I came in. I was brilliant, just like everyone else, and I wanted to tell people what I knew for sure. I also liked to read books and be still.

My really meaningful moments usually involve silence. I feel a great connection when I’m silent in nature. Nature is my biggest teacher. In the past weeks I’ve been watching trees come to life and buds burst forth. Then come the seeds. Tree limbs grow bigger. I’m in awe of that. I want to be patient like that with my own life, listening for cues to open and grow.

Joan Steffend

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