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Joe Demattos Joe Demattos bridge builder. unity advocate. what-if visionary.

As an advocate for quality, person-centered care across all settings, Joseph DeMattos serves as president and CEO of Maryland's oldest and largest provider association of skilled nursing and rehabilitation centers. [www.hfam.org]

What’s meaningful to me is continuing to be a connector of people and of ideas, connecting what’s possible and being an advocate for protecting what’s right and breaking down what’s wrong. I spend a fair amount of time thinking about What if? and Why not? in solitude, then connecting that vision with others to see if it gets any traction for moving it forward.

This is a tremendous time of advocacy in so many areas. Everyone has something to offer and a difference to make. The role of the advocate is not so much to lead individually, but to create a place where others can contribute in their unique ways within whatever framework is relevant. We can always do better and people and teams can always contribute. The advocate plays the role of not so much leading that work, but navigating it and helping others do their best work.

I grew up in Hawaii, where there’s an extraordinary sense of community and a tradition of unity, of making things right, and togetherness. In a place with those values and with an oral language tradition, the role of the connector between families, groups, and generations becomes much more explicit. In my personal and professional life over the past 50-plus years, I’ve been blessed to pay a fair amount of attention to the role of connector – bridging ideas and encouraging myself and others to forget about the distance across the ravine and imagine instead the bridge we can build together to get to the other side.

When I’m struggling to understand where I am in the moment or where I need to be, I try to remember to push the pause button, to stop and be in the moment. Different people pause in different ways – by listening to music that grounds them, finding more time for family, living in the moment with kids or an elder, doing a spiritual practice, or doing something athletic. For me, I get so much clarity from the solitude of running.

The best advice I can give (and I try to live it myself) is that in the moments you’re struggling to realize what’s important, where you should be, and where you might be headed with others, take the time to push your pause button. It’s a great connector.

Joe Demattos

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