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John March John March musician. activist. artistic mentor.

John March is a musician, teacher, producer, writer, activist, Buddhist facilitator in training, and single dad. He mentors artists and develops modern rites of passage for fathers and sons. [www.zenguitarguy.com]

I talk with a lot of people. When I make a genuine connection with someone, when they speak from the truth of who they are and how they are, when a new way of seeing things comes up in our interaction – that’s meaningful to me. In my life and through my connections with people and with myself, I try to bridge the gap I see between my life and the world around me, a gap between what’s real and what’s not so real.

After a lecture I gave at a university once, a student came up to me in tears. He said, “I’ve been thinking I might go crazy because of all the things I want to know and may never learn.” My response was, “What makes you think you won’t go crazy trying to learn those things?” And then I started to cry. As we stood in the hallway, I wasn’t a teacher. We were two human beings, interested in the same things, expressing our concerns. It felt real. We’d made a real connection on a deeper level. We’d bridged the gap.

Part of being a musician is to listen. I listen a lot and people get comfortable talking with me. I don’t really have an agenda, which helps. I’m happy to hear whatever stories people want to tell. What I’ve noticed over the years is that the content changes from person to person, but the essential message is always the same: “I don’t want to suffer like this anymore.” At the same time, people are always asking the same question: “How can I end suffering and make a fresh start in a real way?”

My Zen teacher says, “The quality of your life is dependent on the focus of your attention.” Years of meditation and compassionate observation have shown me how my mind operates, how insubstantial my projections of reality can be … so I practice non-attachment as best I can.

By committing to a process that’s based on mindfulness, I’ve learned how ephemeral and gossamer-like my thoughts are. Even if I’m very upset or confused or engaged in a powerful interaction, as long as I’m willing to let go of anything I know to be true in that instant and focus on the moment, with compassion, my attention shifts toward availability, toward connection rather than separation. I become responsive rather than reactive. I focus in a way that’s uplifting. I choose to bridge the gap.

– John March

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