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Kirsten Olson Kirsten Olson listener. describer. activist.

Author Kirsten Olson is Chief Listening Officer at Old Sow Consulting. She's a founding board member of IDEA, a national not-for-profit that forwards democratic practices in education. [www.kirstenolson.org]

I’m inspired by the greatness of people. I lead workshops where ordinary people talk about confronting sexual abuse, racial injustice, and systems of privilege – systems that have told them they’re worthless. In the moments when I see people step forward and speak, not allowing their shame to keep them silent, I feel uplifted by the bravery, resilience, and possibility of human beings. As I see them recognize their own divinity and hold it in balance with humbleness and gratitude, those people become my teachers, my gods and goddesses.

Experiencing the divinity of ordinary people inspires me to take risks in my own life. When I first began to confront my own woundedness, the field in which I could begin to heal was kindness. So, for me, loving community is the path to our divinity – through fields of nonjudgment and empathic listening, lead by kindness.

In my work, my title is Chief Listening Officer. I think of listening as very active and also very passive. To listen deeply, I begin by emptying myself, putting my feet on the floor, breathing deeply, and clearing space to hear, to allow someone else to come into my being and say whatever they have to say. The space I clear must be very big and have very little furniture in it. My spirit is here to comfort the other spirit as they go on their journey of listening to themselves. Their voice and their experience pour into me. I hear them into being. I bear witness to their experience of their own divinity.

I’ve seen this process happen again and again. It’s the only thing I know that really creates change, and it’s the only thing that’s ever really healed me.

What intrigues me is that it’s all about practice. This kind of listening can’t be learned through reading or study, but has to be practiced again and again, in order to find ways to be quiet enough and non-struggling enough to go on this loving journey with other spirits. It’s a noticing practice – noticing if I’m thinking about the next meeting or if I’m being freaked out by what the person is saying. It’s a practice of noticing and not judging.

I go to the mat of my life every day and try, with loving kindness towards myself, to do a little bit better, to try something new, to take a chance on a little microchange. The daily listening practice, the softness and forgiveness, allow me to be a fierce fighter for what I believe in. Listening is not very dramatic, but it prepares me to be a guerilla fighter for freedom.

– Kirsten Olson

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