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Laura Munson Laura Munson author. new york times sensation. passion pursuer.

Laura Munson is the author of an internationally bestselling memoir. [www.lauramunsonauthor.com]

I’ve been writing for 20 years with the deep dream of getting a book published. I’ve completed 14 novels (not 14 good ones, however!) and have almost gone all the way with two of them. I’ve lived in the intersection of heart and mind and craft that is writing daily, whether I was writing on a cocktail napkin when I was waitressing or on a kid’s coloring book when I was a nanny. If I’ve known one thing about myself, it’s that I write. It’s my practice. My prayer. My meditation. It’s my way of life and my way to life. I’ve stood at so many shorelines, watching so many sunsets, offering my dream of being published to the powers-that-be in hopes that it comes true. Twenty years of offering. Twenty years of rejection.

Finally, I realized something: writing is not who I am. It is of who I am. A few years ago, it became crucial that I make that distinction. I was miserable and realized I couldn’t go on feeling like that. I had to stop basing my well-being, self-worth, and even happiness on things outside my control. I had to take a good look at what it was to live in the present moment and surrender to outcome. What ensued was a new relationship with meaning. Did my life matter if I didn’t achieve my goal to be a published writer of books? How was that sort of thinking helping me in the first place? It wasn’t. Rather, it kept me in a victim stance, and with that came suffering. The meaning lay in the act of creating.

So I decided to commit to non-suffering. Which meant letting go of the future. It doesn’t exist in reality anyway. Nor does the past. What exists is the present moment. And the present moment begs a question: What are you going to create? Are you going to create being miserable? A victim? Or are you going to create personal responsibility and the freedom therein? I chose the latter.

It changed my life. Now I write in the sheer freedom of creation. If I like what I write, I submit it for publication. Then I let go; my work is done. If someone reads it and even loves it, that’s between the reader and my work. That doesn’t mean that dreams need to die, or that hope is not best kept alive. It’s the moment of creation that holds my hope. It’s the moment of creation that is the dream I dream.

– Laura Munson

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