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Mary Jane Ryan Mary Jane Ryan Author. Speaker. Professional Thinker.

Mary Jane Ryan is one of the creators of the bestselling Random Acts of Kindness series. She specializes in coaching high-performance entrepreneurs and leadership teams around the world. [www.mj-ryan.com]

One of the greatest inspirational writers of the 19th century was a man named Henry Drummond. He wrote a best-selling little book called The Greatest Thing In the World. In it, he said, “The world is not a playground; it is a schoolroom. Life is not a holiday, but an education. And the one eternal question for us all is how better can we love.”

Learning and teaching in that schoolroom of love is what inspires me in my personal life and in my work. For me and for many of us, learning to love better begins with the self. Loving ourselves is no small thing. We are each called upon to love ourselves in all our brokenness and beauty, when we stumble as well as when we soar. If we expect perfection from ourselves, we’re rigid, inflexible, judgmental – any mistake is unacceptable, so we push it away and pretend it never happened. We don’t learn from our errors and we are, therefore, condemned to repeat them. If, however, we treat ourselves in a tender, patient manner, as a loving mother would treat her newborn child, it’s possible to acknowledge our mistakes and make wiser choices in the future.

As we cultivate true love for ourselves, we deserve our own mercy. Mercy is an old-fashioned word. You don’t hear it much these days. I love the word mercy because one of its meanings is compassionate treatment of those in distress. When we show ourselves mercy, we cradle our distress, our irritation, and our anger. We hold it close, allow it to touch us and, therefore, transform it. Even if we haven’t lived up to our own standards, we love and care for ourselves anyway – in our woundedness, with our strength. And the more love and mercy we shower on ourselves, the more will flow over onto the rest of the imperfect people who populate this less than perfect world.

The desire to grow in love allows me to listen when I’d rather speak, to serve when I’d rather sleep. It calls me to be my best self more often, and to develop my love in many forms – as a friend, a spouse, a parent, a colleague, a guide.

If life is a schoolroom of love, what are you here to learn? What are you here to teach?

– Mary Jane Ryan

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