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Melissa Francis Melissa Francis tv host. satisfied customer. car washin' smiler.

Melissa Francis, author of Diary of a Stage Mother's Daughter, hosts two daily business shows on the Fox Business Network, including Money with Melissa Francis. She holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in economics from Harvard University. [www.melissafrancisofficial.com]

What brings me joy? That’s the question I ask when I’m trying to connect with what’s meaningful. Often I see other people getting hung up on what others around them have. Is another co-worker getting an unfair advantage? Is that person getting ahead of me, in line or in life? If you’re an achiever, a certain amount of comparing may be healthy, but relentless competition robs your life of joy and meaning. In today’s society it happens too much and breeds misery. Ask yourself, if that other person didn’t exist, would I be satisfied with what I have and who I am?

I take it one step further and ask myself, what would bring me real joy right now? It’s usually about hugging my sons or spending time with my husband. Last weekend, we piled everyone in the car and went to the car wash. My sons cheered as the bubbles tumbled onto my filthy car. They jumped up and down when the hoses sprayed my car with water, liberating a month’s worth of crusty gunk. Their squeals of delight brought a smile to every face in line.

With small kids, joy can be a layup. But this approach works at the office, too. If I can make my audience think and laugh, I’ve found meaning and joy. In a way, it’s a shame that I have to remind myself to by joyful and find meaning, but that’s why God invented post-its!

– Melissa Francis

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