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Rita James Rita James community maven. yoga instructor. living example.

Rita James is a community events expert who realized that if she didn't go within she'd go without. What resonates from within is teaching yoga and being an example to her children.

Prior to my recovery, life held no meaning for me. I couldn’t have cared less about a lot of things. Recovery opened up a gateway to investigating things other than alcohol and relieved me from that bondage. Through the gift of being sober, my life has so much more meaning.

Finding ways to be compassionate and forgiving is a way of living that’s the complete opposite of how I used to live. I thank God and the creator and the universe and everybody that I don’t have to live like that anymore. Being conscious and being present really help.

I’ve worked hard to learn to be present in this moment instead of being in a moment that happened a week, six months, or a year ago. A little mantra I say to myself is “Be present and be here.” That means knowing this isn’t a dress rehearsal. This is it.

Of course, there are times when I get off track, and they’re very unpredictable. But now my synchronicity with the universe and with myself is better. When I feel something coming on that’s taking me out of alignment, I remind myself to pause, to not react to the situation, and try to get to a place where I can respond in a better way. That’s usually through taking a really big, deep breath. Sometimes, at work, I go into the bathroom and slap my knees and say, “Okay, this is yours, this is yours.”

In those moments of need, I call on everyone – whoever’s out there, whoever’s listening – usually with a small little prayer for help to do the right thing. I’ll say, “Direct me to do what you would have me do.”

I quit drinking when my daughter was seven and my son was five. One of the commitments I made then was that they’d never again see me in that condition, and that I’d live my life by a moral code. I’m very honest with my children. I make sure we openly communicate about the things they’re walking through and feeling. I make sure they can see both sides of a story, that their views are not only one-sided.

My husband and I are examples for the kids, who see that we work out our problems. There’s no screaming or name-calling. We always try to find solutions – and there is always a solution.

Whenever something’s bothering me, I remind myself that I am the problem and I am the solution. Remembering that, and forgiving, definitely help.

– Rita James

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