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Shawn Ryan Shawn Ryan jazz jockey. choice maker. wannabe mermaid.

Shawn Ryan is an actor, comedian, singer, and teacher. He's released two albums and made numerous TV appearances. Shawn and his husband co-founded The Young Actors' Theatre Camp. [www.Shawn-Ryan.com]

I wake up every morning and thank heaven for the life I’ve been allowed to create and fulfill – my relationship with my husband of 11 years, our business, my career, and my journey. The most meaningful thing for me is my self-fulfilled life. I wish everyone could realize that our lives are full of choices and we can create whatever we want to.

I used to be focused all the time on my future goals, always thinking about what was to come rather than living in the now. That usually brought me nothing but anticipation, anxiety, and fear. Living fully in the present has given me a sense of wholeness, completion, and peace.

Long ago, I was in a dead-end job, working with a manager who didn’t appreciate my hard work and dedication. Almost daily, I blamed my job for my lack of self-fulfillment. Then, one day, something clicked. I realized that I’m in charge of my own destiny. I decided life is mine for the taking. It was incredibly empowering. I immediately quit the job, then headed home and regrouped.

That night, I took myself out for a celebratory drink and met the man who would become my husband. Within six months, I owned my own business and was my own boss. I’d made the choice to live my own life my own way.

My way is to live perfectly imperfect. I breathe a lot. I tell people I love them. I say “Thank you” a lot.

People so often get held back by worry and blame. In the movie Mermaids, Cher’s character says that dying is living in the past (Cher is my Buddha!). Reliving the past will only bring pain. The present is where it’s all happening.

To live your most fulfilled life, find what makes you happy and make the choice to do that. The hardest part is taking a leap of faith toward what makes you happy.

Shawn Ryan

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