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Kelly Lewis Kelly Lewis inner discoverer. gentle challenger. growth inspirer.

Co-creator of The Bounce Collective, Kelly Lewis inspires her clients to ask their own questions and find their own answers, developing a more compassionate understanding of themselves, others, and the world they impact. [www.wecanbounce.com]

My dad is a recovered alcoholic. He got sober when I was ten. Every Sunday morning he went to a Serenity Meeting. One day he said, “I want you to fully understand me. Let’s go to breakfast together every Sunday and then go together to the Serenity Meeting.”

My dad opened up his life and invited me in to ask questions. Even though I was only ten, he trusted me to be in that conversation with him. Thirty years later, we still have a relationship based on pure trust. If dad had kept me out of that part of his life, it could have turned into something that kept us apart. Instead, it’s brought my whole family closer together.

At the Serenity Meetings, I found an amazing learning community. People went to the meetings to understand, to fully support, and even to challenge each other. Together, they found the strength to make new choices, even when choices didn’t seem readily available.

Today, I create learning communities where meaning, truth, and understanding can happen both within people and between people. I’ve learned that to understand someone else, I must truly and deeply listen, see them fully, and be curious with them. If I’m lucky, the person I’m with is curious enough to want to fully understand me and I’m courageous enough to openly share.

Sharing our personal experiences takes courage. We have to be willing to look inside, accept the person we see, and have the courage to tell the truth. When we share from a place of vulnerability, we build deep, intimate relationships that allow us to be honest. We can fully give of ourselves and ask for what we need in return. Then our intentions come from a pure, honest place without a hidden agenda.

Yesterday, I went to the doctor. When I left, I was a little upset, so I called my husband. I knew I needed him to tell me it was going to be okay. I could have gone through the whole conversation being dishonest with myself and with him about what I needed. Who knows if he would have said what I needed to hear? Instead, I said, “I’m a little upset, and I need you to tell me it’s going to be okay.” He did, and that’s all I needed. Understanding is made so much simpler when we’re honest.

Kelly Lewis

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