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Norman Lear has enjoyed a long career in television and film. He is also a political and social activist and philanthropist. [www.normanlear.com]

 
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Leilani Münter is a professional race car driver and an environmental activist who uses her voice in the number one spectator sport in America as a catalyst for change. [www.leilanimunter.com]

 
Kevin Bales Kevin Bales Freedom Fighter. Philanthropist. Game Changer.

By going undercover to meet slaves and slaveholders, Kevin Bales exposed modern slavery's penetration into the global economy. He co-founded Free the Slaves, which has helped to liberate thousands of slaves. [www.freetheslaves.net]

 
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Desmond Tutu Desmond Tutu archbishop. author. peaceful leader.

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Zainab Salbi Zainab Salbi author. ceo. humanitarian.

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Sean Stephenson Sean Stephenson speaker. psychotherapist. life embracer.

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Kia Miller Kia Miller yogi. meditator. teacher.

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Mathieu Bitton Mathieu Bitton Designer. Art Director. Passionate Creator.

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Jorge Perez Jorge Perez Agent. Producer. Photography Enthusiast.

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Leigh Fortson Leigh Fortson author. powerful healer. inspiration.

Author Leigh Fortson's personal and universal story shows how her thoughts and emotions dictated the well-being of her cells. She helps others understand what it means to heal. [www.embracehealingcancer.com]

I’ve lived a privileged life, always. As a child, I never went hungry. My mother loved me and showed it. We belonged to the country club. I could swim and play tennis every day of the summer, order a hamburger, French fries, and Coke, and go home to a comfortable house where I’d watch Bewitched and dream of all the things I’d do if I could wiggle my nose that way.

Growing up has its struggles and my family was imperfect – even so, those decades and the ones that followed were good. My taste for country clubs, food, and entertainment changed and my passions grew. I fell in love, got married, and had children. Yet, somewhere along the way, I adopted an outlook steeped in lack and rooted in judgment. I didn’t truly see that in myself until I got cancer – for the third time – and began looking at the tenor of my thoughts and deeply questioning why I’d copped the attitude I had about life.

During that inquiry, I realized I had the glass-half-empty syndrome. But when you’re led to believe you’re on the brink of losing everything, including your breath, your world turns upside down. That’s when my half-empty glass became half-full.

And it felt great. Rather than focusing on what wasn’t right, I saw beauty. I began turning my gaze from the things I’d judged and criticized and instead started noticing the little things surrounding me at any given moment that were remarkably perfect. My appreciation ranged from the simple design on a dinner plate to the magnificence of the night sky to the mess in my daughter’s room to the dancing brows above my dog’s eyes … to the woman I saw in the mirror.

Now, my glass is not only half full – it’s brimming over. I’ve learned that if I pay attention to what’s wrong in my world that’s what becomes my world. So I avoid heavy movies, sad books, and controlling humans. Instead, I feed my newfound love affair with life by creating a habit of focusing on what’s before me at any moment in time – seeing beauty and perfection, love and frailty, meaningful symbols and abstract mystery.

I believe I’m cancer-free today largely because I changed the tone within myself to the same pitch as the music and elegance and rightness of the world. It took more than wiggling my nose to get here, but sometimes it takes more than magic to know the truth about life.

– Leigh Fortson

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